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Be Kind, Don‘t Panic, and Have Faith. Psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer and educator Judy Alexander talk about relationships, interview fascinating guests, and answer your questions.
Be Kind, Don‘t Panic, and Have Faith. Psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer and educator Judy Alexander talk about relationships, interview fascinating guests, and answer your questions.
Episodes

Friday Apr 30, 2021
It's Not About Communication! Episode 36
Friday Apr 30, 2021
Friday Apr 30, 2021

Okay, let's get snarky. Everybody comes in to couples therapy saying, "We need to communicate better." No you don't! (Well, you probably don't--okay, it's complicated.) We talk about why it's not about how you talk. And then we handle a listener question.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Sunday Apr 18, 2021

Your wife has just tricked you into giving your irrevocable blessing to the wrong son. Can you get past that? We interview Isaac and Rebecca, and along the way we learn how complicated things can get when the voice of God gets involved.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Kol Sason v"Kol Simcha by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Tuesday Apr 06, 2021
Can You Have Too Much Faith? An Interview with Abraham and Sarah - Episode 34
Tuesday Apr 06, 2021
Tuesday Apr 06, 2021

What would you do if your husband had just taken your son to sacrifice him, and was stopped at the last second? Sarah and Abraham reached out to us to help them with the marital fallout from this event, and we do our best to offer a path to reconciliation--with mixed success.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Kol Sason v"Kol Simcha by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Mar 19, 2021
What Do You Mean, "Faith is What Heals People?" - Episode 33
Friday Mar 19, 2021
Friday Mar 19, 2021

Wait a minute. Our seven-word formula says, "Be kind, don't panic, and have faith." And I (Bruce) go around claiming that it's the faith part that heals people. So what does that mean? We pick up on some reviewer comments, and some questions from Judy, and explore what faith means in the context of helping couples heal.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Mar 12, 2021
Trouble in Paradise: An Interview with Adam and Eve - Episode 32
Friday Mar 12, 2021
Friday Mar 12, 2021

He's always blaming her. She's tired of it. Can they work it out? We interview Adam and Eve to see if we can help them resolve their troubles.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Kol Sason v"Kol Simcha by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Sunday Mar 07, 2021
Love at Any Age: Myra and Seth Barovick - Episode 31
Sunday Mar 07, 2021
Sunday Mar 07, 2021
Can love and passion endure at any age? Myra and Seth Barovick are living proof that they can! We interview Myra and Seth about life, love, and family.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort


Sunday Feb 21, 2021
Special Purim Episode: Can This Royal Marriage Survive? Episode 30
Sunday Feb 21, 2021
Sunday Feb 21, 2021

Can this royal marriage survive? We interview Vashti and Achashverosh, live on the program, and see what we can do.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Kol Sason v"Kol Simcha by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Sunday Feb 14, 2021
Sunday Feb 14, 2021

Heresy! How can we accuse "The Brady Bunch" of being a disaster for blended families? Well, Judy and Bruce don't totally agree on that proposition. Listen as we consider the issues that blended families face, and take on a listener question.
Send in your questions: email us at bruce@brucechalmer.com, or just visit brucechalmer.com. We'd love to hear from you!
And let us know if you'd like to be interviewed on the show! Visit brucechalmer.com/podcast for more information.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available here, or wherever you get your books.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show.
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Couples Therapy in Seven Words
Be kind, don't panic, and have faith. Everything and anything about relationships.
