Episodes

Sunday Sep 10, 2023
Sunday Sep 10, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/healing-from-infidelity-through-kundalini-yoga-an-interview-with-eva-g-kane/.
Can a couple heal from infidelity? Can you forgive your partner’s cheating, move past the pain, and rebuild your relationship? Our guest in this episode, Eva G. Kane, has been through that experience. Along the way, she became an instructor of Kundalini Yoga, which she credits with saving her marriage. And she wrote a memoir of her experience, called It’s Not Too Late, Baby: A Kundalini Love Story.
Eva’s website is https://itsnottoolatebaby.com/.
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Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Sunday Sep 03, 2023
Sunday Sep 03, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://youtu.be/OgPf_CjFYzo.
What are the challenges of being in a marriage, and parenting, when you’re neurodiverse yourself and have neurodiverse children? What can everyone, neurodiverse or not, learn from those experiences? Our guest in this episode, Dr. Christopher Scott Wyatt, is an autistic self-advocate who also advocates for his neurodiverse daughters. We discuss relationships, parenting, education, and more.
Dr. Wyatt’s blog is “The Autistic Me,” and he hosts the “Perspectives on Neurodiversity” podcast.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Aug 25, 2023
Friday Aug 25, 2023
The video of this episode is at this link.
Rev. Cheryl Kincaid is a Presbyterian minister, former foster parent, and survivor of childhood abuse. She has facilitated groups for women who have experienced violence, and has written several novels about children in foster care who have been abused, portraying her characters in all their nuanced complexity. We talk to Rev. Kincaid about her faith, life, and work.
You can find more information about Rev. Kincaid and her work at https://revcherylkincaid.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Aug 18, 2023
When Do Annoyances Become Deal-Breakers?
Friday Aug 18, 2023
Friday Aug 18, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/when-do-annoyances-become-deal-breakers/.
A few episodes back we talked about the magic key that solves all relationship problems (not too grandiose, right?), which involves the ability to tolerate annoyance from others without getting into full-blown panic. This idea (also discussed in Dr. Chalmer’s Newsletter) prompted a listener to ask us about how to tell when annoyances have risen to the level of destructive. We talk about the nuances of that question, and how our listener and others in her situation might handle that dilemma.
At around minute 52, we give a shout-out to Bat Sheva Marcus, a sex therapist we’ve had on the show twice in the past. Hi, Bat Sheva!
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Aug 11, 2023
Commitment, Aging, and Spirituality: An Interview with Caryl and Jay Casbon
Friday Aug 11, 2023
Friday Aug 11, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://youtu.be/5Ve2itHMQLo.
How can we age well? As the proportion of the population above 65 continues to grow, this question is occupying more and more of our minds. Our guests in this episode, Caryl and Jay Casbon, undertook an in-depth study involving extended stays with 13 different couples, interviewing them about their lives and relationships as they age. The result of this five-year effort is their book Side by Side: The Sacred Art of Couples Aging with Wisdom & Love.
More information about the book, and about Caryl and Jay, is at https://sidebysideaging.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Aug 04, 2023
Ethical Nonmonogamy, Kink, and Sex Therapy: An Interview with Jodie Shea
Friday Aug 04, 2023
Friday Aug 04, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://youtu.be/sjNra-VO9Tc.
What is ethical nonmonogamy? What’s the difference between couples therapy and sex therapy? And how does the idea that we’re each actually a bunch of people help couples? We interview couples and sex therapist Jodie Shea about her work.
Jodie’s website is https://pillowtalktherapy.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Jul 28, 2023
The Magic Key that Solves All Relationship Problems!
Friday Jul 28, 2023
Friday Jul 28, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://youtu.be/PJtoO-jJ6Wc.
A magic key that solves all relationship problems? In a single phrase, yet? Well, okay, it does take a little bit of explaining. But it’s not just hype! As Bruce explains in this episode, this magic key is not only for couples. All sorts of relationships—even politics—can benefit.
What is this astonishing phrase? Tune in and find out!
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
When you sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter, you’ll get a link for a free download of Dr. Chalmer’s booklet Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life. You can also get the book on Amazon as an eBook, paperback, or audiobook.
Find out more about Dr. Chalmer’s books at https://ctin7.com/books.

Friday Jul 14, 2023
Toxic Workplace? The Seven Words Can Help! An Interview with Leanne Abraham
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Friday Jul 14, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://youtu.be/FX_Mh3GQ1SM.
When Bruce came up with the Seven Words (Be Kind, Don't Panic, and Have Faith) he was thinking about couples and couples therapy. When executive and team coach Leanne Abraham encountered Bruce's books, she realized how helpful the Seven Words can be for organizations looking to improve their teamwork, atmosphere, and effectiveness. Leanne describes how she applies the Seven Words in her work with executives and teams, helping them find common purpose and fulfilling work.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
When you sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter, you’ll get a link for a free download of Dr. Chalmer’s booklet Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life. You can also get the book on Amazon as an eBook, paperback, or audiobook.
Find out more about Dr. Chalmer’s books at https://ctin7.com/books.
Our sponsor's website is https://lariazylber.com.

Couples Therapy in Seven Words
Be kind, don't panic, and have faith. Everything and anything about relationships.