Episodes

Friday Oct 07, 2022
The Intimate Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell
Friday Oct 07, 2022
Friday Oct 07, 2022
How do you keep passion alive in a long-term relationship? Can you have a sexual awakening after decades of marriage? We talk to Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” and answer a question from a listener who wants to get her sex life going again with her older husband.
Dr. Stockwell’s website is https://alexandrastockwell.com.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. https://brucechalmer.com. And watch for Dr. Chalmer’s forthcoming book, It’s Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong.
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Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Sep 30, 2022
Frazzlebrain: An Interview with Dr. Gina Simmons Schneider
Friday Sep 30, 2022
Friday Sep 30, 2022
Been feeling frazzled lately? A lot of us have! Dr. Gina Simmons Schneider tells us what to do to calm our frazzlebrains, and helps out a listener.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. https://brucechalmer.com.
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Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Sep 23, 2022
It’s Still Not About Communication!
Friday Sep 23, 2022
Friday Sep 23, 2022
Remember our most popular episode, "It's Not About Communication!"? Well, Bruce has written a new book (out soon) called It's Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong. And spoiler alert: Bruce gives away the "zinger" of the book.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. https://brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at https://ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Sep 09, 2022
Plugging in the Erotic Charge
Friday Sep 09, 2022
Friday Sep 09, 2022
How do you get that erotic “wow” factor in your relationship? Not just in your sex life, but when you’re doing the dishes? We answer a listener question, and along the way talk some about our own relationship too.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Sep 02, 2022
OMG – I Do Think She’s A Moron!
Friday Sep 02, 2022
Friday Sep 02, 2022
Polly and Cal came to therapy trying to improve their communication skills. Then one day they came into the session both smiling. Cal had realized something, and so had Polly, and it was making a big difference. What was their great insight?
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Sunday Aug 21, 2022
Sex Therapy and Religion: An Interview with Dr. Caleb Jacobson
Sunday Aug 21, 2022
Sunday Aug 21, 2022
Sex therapy and religion don’t often go together—but our guest on today’s podcast, Dr. Caleb Jacobson, is an expert on both, and how they reinforce each other. Dr. Jacobson’s website is https://sextherapypodcast.com. Here’s the discount link to our sponsored product today.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Friday Aug 12, 2022
How Do I Know If Couples Therapy is Helping?
Friday Aug 12, 2022
Friday Aug 12, 2022
When you start couples therapy, how do you know if it’s helping? And how do you find a therapist in the first place? We help a listener who’s been through a bunch of therapy experiences that weren’t helpful, and is wondering how to know what to look for.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer’s website. brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Sunday Jul 31, 2022
Parents as Imperfect Heroes: An Interview with DJ Stutz
Sunday Jul 31, 2022
Sunday Jul 31, 2022
How are parents, imperfect as we all are, also heroes? How can a couple work together to help their children grow and thrive, even when the parents differ in their parenting styles? What’s the role of faith in parenting? In this episode of “Couples Therapy in Seven Words,” we interview early childhood expert DJ Stutz about these and other topics.
The websites DJ mentions are https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com and https://imperfectheroespodcast.com.
Dr. Chalmer's book Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back is available wherever you get your books, or go to Dr. Chalmer's website, brucechalmer.com.
Like this podcast? Review us, like us, follow us, and do all those other kinds of wonderful things to us! It helps people find the show. Visit us at ctin7.com!
Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort

Couples Therapy in Seven Words
Be kind, don't panic, and have faith. Everything and anything about relationships.