Episodes

Friday Jan 19, 2024
Sacred Sexuality and Sexual Communion: An Interview with Satya Lila
Friday Jan 19, 2024
Friday Jan 19, 2024
For the video of this episode, visit https://brucechalmer.com/satya-lila/.
What is sacred sex, and how can couples explore its possibilities? Our guest in this episode, Satya Lila, teaches about sacred sexuality, its benefits for individuals and couples, and techniques that help it happen.
Satya’s website is https://satyalila.info/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Jan 12, 2024
Tantric Intimacy--It’s Not Just About Sex! An Interview with Katrina Bos
Friday Jan 12, 2024
Friday Jan 12, 2024
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/tantra-katrina-bos/.
When people hear “tantra,” at least in Western cultures, they usually think about techniques for mind-blowing sex. Our guest in this episode, Katrina Bos, does teach about tantric approaches to sex, but she recognizes that tantra is a spiritual path for living life in all its aspects, not just the sexual. Katrina points out that our seven words, “Be kind, don’t panic, and have faith,” map very well onto the ideas of tantra. And besides that, she explains her book title, You Don’t Have to Eat the Eyeballs!
Katrina’s website is https://www.katrinabos.ca/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Jan 05, 2024
Disinheritance, Betrayal, and Forgiveness: An Interview with MB Caschetta
Friday Jan 05, 2024
Friday Jan 05, 2024
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/mb-caschetta/.
Our guest for this episode, MB Caschetta, was shocked to find out that she had been disinherited by her father. We talk about how that betrayal affected her, and her journey toward healing, forgiveness, and spiritual growth.
MB’s website is https://www.mbcaschetta.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Dec 29, 2023
Jealousy, Both Toxic and Healthy: An Interview with Shanenn Bryant
Friday Dec 29, 2023
Friday Dec 29, 2023
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/shanenn-bryant/.
Our guest today, Shanenn Bryant, describes herself as “a former insecure girl turned relationship confidence expert.” Through her own experiences of healing from toxic jealousy, Shanenn has developed resources to help her clients make the changes they need to gain confidence and improve their relationships.
Shanenn’s website is https://www.topself.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Dec 22, 2023
Judy Comes Out! And Our Gift to You
Friday Dec 22, 2023
Friday Dec 22, 2023
The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/judy-comes-out/.
In this brief episode, we re-introduce the podcast, and offer you a chance to win a free gift. And (ta-da!) Judy reveals a secret we’ve been keeping for months! (No, she’s not pregnant.)
Want to comment? Argue? Complain? Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Dec 15, 2023
Betrayal and Forgiveness: An Interview with Danny-J Johnson
Friday Dec 15, 2023
Friday Dec 15, 2023
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/danny-j/.
Betrayal can happen in a lot of ways, and our guest in this episode, Danny-J Johnson, tells us about her own experiences and what she has learned from them. Danny found out as a teenager that her biological father was a sperm donor, and then as an adult discovered through DNA testing that she has dozens of biological half-siblings. She also went through discovering that her then-husband was having an affair. She talks about how those experiences—finding out her parents had lied to her about who her biological father was, and later finding out that her husband was cheating—have affected her, in terms of both pain and gain.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Dec 08, 2023
Healthy Conflict, Happy Couple: An Interview with Lisa Gray
Friday Dec 08, 2023
Friday Dec 08, 2023
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/lisa-gray/.
How can conflict be healthy for a couple? Our guest, Lisa Gray, tells us about how she helps couples learn the skills of healthy conflict. Lisa’s book is Healthy Conflict, Happy Couple: How to Let Go of Blame and Grow Stronger Together.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Friday Dec 01, 2023
The “Chaos Kid” Phenomenon: An Interview with Larry Bilotta
Friday Dec 01, 2023
Friday Dec 01, 2023
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/larry-bilotta/.
How can one person change a marriage? Our guest, Larry Bilotta, used his own experience of transforming a “marriage hell” into a thriving partnership to develop ideas to help people heal their relationships by healing themselves.
Larry’s website is https://larrybilotta.com.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.
Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

Couples Therapy in Seven Words
Be kind, don't panic, and have faith. Everything and anything about relationships.